Make Your Own Gratitude Journal
Stress, work, and family responsibilities, and a similar
routine day in and day out can lead to negative thinking and
unhappiness. Finding ways to refocus on the positive can help you break this
cycle. Keeping a gratitude journal is one of the best ways to retrain your
thoughts to focus on the positives in your life. Here are some things to keep
in mind when starting your own gratitude journal.
1.) Choose Your
Journal
What works best for you? Do you enjoy writing and find it
helps you slow down and connect with what you’re feeling? Is typing your
preferred method of getting thoughts down quickly? Decide what format fits your
needs best. You may also want to decorate your journal in ways that remind you
of your purpose or help you feel more positive.
For example: attach or paste photos that make you happy on the cover or random pages, draw pictures that depict positive feelings about the things you’re grateful for, write inspirational quotes in the margins, and notate special anniversaries and write about why you are grateful for those events and people.
For example: attach or paste photos that make you happy on the cover or random pages, draw pictures that depict positive feelings about the things you’re grateful for, write inspirational quotes in the margins, and notate special anniversaries and write about why you are grateful for those events and people.
2.) Be Consistent
You should write in your gratitude journal every day. If you
like to start your day off on a positive note, write in your journal after you
eat breakfast. If you want to use your gratitude journal to reflect after a
long and stressful day, write in it before you go to bed.
3.) Write at Least
3-5 Things
Decide on a goal for how many things you’d like to express
gratitude for each day, but be sure that it is no less than three to five. You
can write your entries as a list or small paragraphs. It may be hard coming up
with three items in the beginning, but once you get in the habit, it will be
easy to see the positive in all the things you do.
4.) Be as Specific as
You Can
In the beginning, it may be hard to find things you’re
grateful for so you may be tempted to list things like “I’m grateful for my
job.” Instead, you could write “I really like the people I work with every day”
or “I’m grateful to have a job that lets me have a flexible schedule to work
around child care.
5.) Turn Negatives
into Positives
Help transform your thoughts by finding the positive side of
negative situations. Instead of dwelling on things that aren’t working out –
maybe financial hardships, health problems, etc – try to find a positive in
those situations. For example: “I don’t feel well and I’m worried about my health
condition, but I’m grateful for the insight it has given me into how much I
want to get out of life.”
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